Our Story

Our Story

From different corners of the world, our story began in late 2018. Bart, born and raised in Haarlem, met Carol, who grew up between Peru and Canada, but was in Amsterdam for her Masters! What started as a simple meeting slowly turned into something neither of us expected, but both of us are forever grateful for.
When we started dating officially, we didn’t know that together, the experiences we would have would shape our lives in more ways than we could have imagined. In the beginning, language was sometimes a challenge, with Dutch on one side and Spanish and English on the other, but we learned each other’s languages, cultures, traditions, and jokes along the way.
2019 – We started our relationship and began writing our story together. Carol graduated from the Vrije Universiteit with her Masters!
2020–2021 – We lived together through a global pandemic, learning that we actually liked spending every single day alongside each other! Travelled together to Canada during the pandemic to visit Carol’s parents, after she secured her first big corporate job in Utrecht!
2022 – Bart graduated from his Bachelors and started his Masters at the VU as well! Went to Disneyland Paris, and we both fell in love with Edinburgh, Bart a little bit more with whiskey (if you know, you know!). We also did a USA west coast roadtrip and more with Carol’s parents, best trip ever!
2023–2024 – We visited Peru after long years for Carol and first time for Bart! We also went to Singapore for our dearest friend’s wedding, Bali and Canada! It was a year of a lot of travel to meet with loved ones. Bart graduated from his Masters and started his big corporate job!
2025–2026 – Bart proposed to Carol in 2025 and she said yes! The rest of 2026 we spent planning the wedding and visiting Canada and Peru to meet with Carol’s family.
Always – Through sickness, stress, successes, and life’s ups and downs, we were and will be always there for each other.
We truly grew into adulthood together. First jobs, first apartment, first big life decisions, and learning what it means to support someone unconditionally. We bring out the best in each other and help each other through the difficult moments, always as a team.
After six wonderful years together, in August 2025, Bart proposed at the beautiful Lindos Acropolis in Rhodes during a warm, actually very hot! (if you know, you know) afternoon. It was the easiest and sweatiest “yes” ever.
Now we are getting married in July 2027, and we look forward to a lifetime of adventures, laughter, support, love, and growing old together, just like we have been doing since our early twenties baby!

And this is basically us…

Carol meme
ME IF YOU ARE NOT HAVING FUN
OR NOT DANCING
Bart meme
ME AT THE END
OF THE NIGHT